SELF IMPROVEMENT

• Avoid fear it grows face fear it goes
  
• Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live.............
  
• There are many things that we would throw away if we were not afraid that others might pick them up......
  
• We teach people how to remember we never teach them how to grow.....
  
• When we are happy we are always good, but when we are good we are not always happy............
  
• Unused money devalues. Unused talent diminishes. Unused potential decays. Unused time dies Unused knowledge becomes a burden. What isn't used is abused. The tragedy of life is isn't the ultimate death, but the resources that die within you when you are still alive. Use it, or you will lose it..............
  
• An amature photographer was invited to dinner with his friends. He took along a few pictures to show the hostess. She looked at the photos and commented, "These are very good! You must have a good camera."
  He did not make any comment then, but as he was leaving he said,"That was really delicious meal! You must have some very good utensils."

• Spending time together does not mean you are completely focussed on each other. Giving due attention to your partner plays an important role in building a relationship.
  
• It's easy to have faith in yourself and have discipline when you are a winner, when you are number one.But you have got to have faith and discipline when you are not yet a winner.
  
• Some of us will do our jobs well and some will not, but we will be judged by only one thing - the result.
  
• The good Lord gave you a body that can stand anything. It's your mind you have to convince.
  
• They call it coaching, but it is teaching. You do not just tell them... you show them the reasons.
  
• The fact is we could all do with some attention. However, what would make our lives better is giving due attention to our loved ones.
  
• Children drift away from parental control when someone in the world makes them feel more wanted than their parents. When chidren get enough attention, when they get enough appreciation for all their positives, when every little improvement of theirs is encouraged, when there is enough quality time and communication between parents and children.. there will hardly be any emotional tantrums.
  
• Will power couple with faith can make miracles happen.
  
• The seed for the growth of the ego in the child is sown when he/she is prodded into outdoing other children- every activity becomes a kind of competition and winning becomes the primary goal. In this way, children are denid the joy of the process, but are fed the narrow out look of winning over others. There is the danger that this mentality might turn out to be the cause for a few to resort to unethical methods to succeed.
  
  
  
  LET PROBLEM COME FROM ANYWHERE LET SOLUTION COME FROM YOU........
  
  ONCE PRESIDENT LINCOLN said a few kind words about the Confederates.
  "My president, a woman asked, "how can you speak kindly of your enemies when you should rather destroy them?"
  Lincoln answered, "What madam, do I not destroy my enemies when I make them my friends?"
  

Pencil

The pencil maker took the pencil aside. Just before putting it into the box. There are 5 things you need to know," he told the pencil,"before I send you out into the world. Always remember them and you will become the best pencil you can be."
1- You will be able to do many great things, but if you allow yourself to be held in someone's hand.

2-You will experiecnce a painful sharpning from time to time, but you need it to become a better pencil.

3- You will be able to correct the mistakes you might make.

4- The most important part of you will always be what's inside.

5- You must leave your mark on every surface you are used. Irrespective of the conditions, you must continue to write.

The pencil understood, promised to remember what the pencil maker had said and went into the box with the purpose in its heart.
Now replace the pencil with you.

Make yourself his instrument and allow other human beings to acess you for the many gifts you possess. You will experience a painful sharpening from time to time, by going through various challenges in your life, but you will need it to be a srtonger person. You will be able to correct any mistakes you might be able to make. The most impartant part of you will be what's inside. you must leave your mark in whatever you do in life. Irrespective of the situation, continue to do your duty.

You are a special person and only you can fulfil the purpose you were born to accoplish. Beocme the best you can be.


Answer to your confusion!

know how it sucks being around people who always put the fall on you even when you're dead right. The only thing you can really do is notice less of it. Remind yourself who you are, the things you want to attain in life, get your minds off of them. It's really pointless to explain things to them for hours if they're just going to shrug it off and forget it the next day. So don't bother doing that unless of course you like getting headaches which I'm sure you don't. I know how it feels being around such ignorant people... Just know that these are merely ignorant people and in the end will have no baring upon what I become in life. I like to consider them... Half Minded... They're alive... but don't think or function with much greatness at all...

Personally though... I would NEVER change my personality just because I'm surrounded by a bunch of careless people who have nothing better to do with their time but to patronize their mistakes upon you or your every mistake.


Answer To Your Lonliness!

Why do you need people to be around you all the time? It's not all that it's cooked up to be being around people. I'm not saying everyone's an asshole or a jerk but to be perfectly honest... You believe you need a person to complete you or make you happy... You're incredibaly mistaken, what you need is confidence for the only person you need is yourself... other people will follow... Don't worry about it... There's absolutely NOTHING wrong with being alone... I have been for nearly my entire life and I enjoy every minute now! Why? Because I don't NEED people, nor do you. You just need yourself and to concentrate on yourself and you'll find the more you work on yourself and stick up for only you... the more people that will follow... You see, it's the more you DON'T NEED people the more you will attract them. It hurts on the inside I know but what you need to do is ENJOY LIFE!!! It's WAAAAY to short to worry about all the people who left you and wishing someone would enter your life... Only you can make yourself happy and the less you depend on other people, the happier you'll find yourself... Trust me, you'll be fine...